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Woman born with two vaginas says she feels ‘unfeminine’ because of fertility troubles

A woman with two vaginas has said she feels “unfeminine” due to infertility trouble but her husband has stood by her claiming she is double the woman.

Heather Welper, 25, found she had uterus didelphys during a routine smear test aged 23 but said she always felt something wasn’t right as she had “crazy” periods and tampons didn’t work.

She was born with two vaginas, cervixes and uteruses and was told she may never be able to have children just months before marrying 27-year-old Calvin Welper.

But when Heather, from Gainesville, Texas, US, rang cattle ranch barn manager Calvin to deliver the distressing diagnosis he reassured her they would figure it out and that her unique anatomy made her “double” the woman she is.

They began trying for a baby after tying the knot in May 2019 but Heather miscarried and has struggled to conceive again.

The determined couple are now “throwing the whole kitchen sink” at their dream of starting a family and have splashed out around £10,000 in 18 months on surgeries and fertility treatments.

Heather is now sharing her infertility struggles on TikTok in a bid to help other women with the condition and racked up more than 44,700 likes and comments on the social media platform.

She said: “It makes me feel like a little less of a woman because my body doesn’t function but he says that I’m ‘twice the woman’ because I have twice the reproductive organs.

“It was a big shock and I was so emotional and called him when he was at work and he said ‘it’s ok, we’re going to take care of it’.

“The doctor was super negative about everything and told me I’d never be able to have kids and if I did get pregnant I would likely lose them.

“That was right before we got married so it was super traumatising to hear all this negative stuff right before you’re about to enter a whole new chapter of life, it was heartbreaking.

“Then you have to have those conversations like ‘if we can’t have children, do you still want to marry me?’

“My husband is so supportive, he was like ‘of course, we can adopt or whatever if we have to, we’ll figure it out’, so it didn’t change anything for him.”

Heather said she first visited the doctor with “super heavy and painful” periods when she was 13 but was put on birth control as it was thought she had irregular hormones.

Heather said: “I knew something was wrong or different because my periods were always so crazy and I would have to wear a tampon and a pad to play sports.

“It was like somebody was punching me in the gut. I could hardly function and then I felt ridiculous because none of my friends were acting like that when they got their cycle, so I thought I was just maybe being dramatic.

“I remember other women being like ‘you’re just being dramatic’, telling me I hadn’t drunk enough water, I needed to stretch or that I didn’t eat right, it just got blown off.

“All my friends could just wear tampons and they were fine but if I wanted to go swimming I always had to be careful because half the time the tampons wouldn’t work.

“When I found out [about the diagnosis] I thought ‘well that makes sense’.”

Heather said that despite having had three smear tests prior to her diagnosis in February 2019, several other doctors had never noticed she had the rare condition.

Heather said: “I was at my yearly pap smear exam and was getting married that May and I knew we were going to try to start having kids at some point.

“I always felt that something wasn’t right – tampons never really worked for me, my periods were always way heavier than my friends and sometimes intercourse could be painful.

“I’d had yearlies before and no one had ever caught anything so I asked ‘can you just double check everything?’

“She goes ‘huh, that’s weird’, and I was like ‘what’s weird?’ and she’s like ‘I think you have two’. I’m like ‘two of what, what are you talking about?’

“She said ‘two vaginas’.”

Seeking a second opinion, Heather went to see another doctor who told her it would be “very difficult and high risk” for her to conceive.

Despite the diagnosis, the pair started trying for a baby immediately after they got married but after returning from their honeymoon Heather discovered she’d miscarried.

Heather has since had two surgeries. The first was to remove her vaginal septum, a thin piece of skin separating her two vaginal canals, so she could have an easier time trying to conceive.

The other was to remove endometriosis tissue that was discovered.

Heather said: “It was an exciting time discovering I was pregnant, but it was also scary.

“The doctor I had seen prior to this was just so negative. As soon as I found out I couldn’t let myself be happy, I was just so scared because all this doctor had ever told me ‘oh well, if you do get pregnant good luck because you’re likely going to miscarry’.

“It’s been hard. I feel like I’m no longer the person I was in 2019 when we got married and I found out about all this.

“Instead of just being able to plan a vacation and go and have fun with friends and family I constantly have to be thinking ‘am I going to be ovulating? Am I going to have to take shots and pills and all kinds of this and that’ so that we can hopefully have a baby?

“Your mind is constantly on that instead of enjoying your life.

“We’ve pretty much thrown the whole kitchen sink at trying for a baby – I’ve been to four different doctors for fertility treatments.”

Heather said she’s part of a support group with women with uterus didelphys and that most of them have had pregnancies with no complications.

She even knows one friend with the condition that fell pregnant within five months of trying and is now 20 weeks and “doing great”.

Heather said: “Calvin constantly tells me that we have to keep the faith, he knows it’s going to happen and he truly believes it will and I have to stay in the right mindset.

“He’s very supportive. He’s my rock, he’s the one that keeps me going.

“We always knew we wanted to have children for sure. We didn’t want a huge family but we definitely knew we wanted at least one or two.

“I started my TikTok to help the girls that have what I have.

“There is such little information out there and the information doctors are giving is disheartening and people deserve to hear from somebody that’s been in their shoes and not from a doctor who has never even had a uterus.

“My main goal in being open and honest about my journey is to hopefully help another young woman struggling.

“I don’t ever want anyone to feel as isolated as I did when I first found out.

“I know god has a plan for us, and I believe part of his plan is for me to share my story for other women experiencing the same thing.

“It’s been such a long, heartbreaking ride, but if I can help just one woman to feel understood, then my pain will have served a purpose.”